For our one-year anniversary, my boyfriend, Steve, planned a special dinner out. We hooked up at my place, and afterward, I pulled him into the shower. He soaped me up all over, and to return the favor, I grabbed my favorite coconut body scrub and began giving him a rubdown. I must have gotten really into it, because I didn’t realize I had started to rub the grainy scrub over his member. Steve started screaming that his balls were burning. When he jumped out of the shower, there were tons of little red bumps all over his boys. I took him to the doctor, and we ended up having to avoid physical contact completely for a week because his skin was so raw.